Psychologist Patric Pförtner

Patric Pförtner

M.Sc. Psychologist, Doctoral Candidate

Have you also asked yourself the following questions?

  • How can you stop catastrophizing?
  • Why do I always catastrophize?
  • Where does catastrophic thinking come from?
  • What are examples of catastrophic thoughts?

Then you're not alone! This phenomenon is called catastrophic thinking.

Imagine you're standing on the edge of a deep abyss. The cold air whips your face, and looking down makes you feel dizzy.

Fear and panic spread.

What if you slip?

What if the ground beneath you gives way and you fall into the depths?

This is what it feels like when you're caught in the spiral of catastrophic thoughts.

These thought traps, which make us assume the worst, can cause us fear, anxiety, and even feelings of paralysis.

The First Example

Let's take Anna as an example. As a talented pianist, she's about to have her most important concert. But instead of looking forward to the music, she's plagued by doubts and fears.

"What if I make a mistake?" flashes through her mind. "The whole world will laugh at me!"

She imagines scenarios where she fails on stage and her career lies in ruins.

If you'd like to hear Anna's full story, I recommend watching my video Anxiety Got You Down? How to STOP Catastrophizing .

My YouTube Video about How To Stop Catastrophizing

My YouTube Video about How To Stop Catastrophizing

So, what are these catastrophic thoughts that can trap us so powerfully?

Imagine your brain is like an orchestra. Different sections play together to create the symphony of your thoughts and feelings. But sometimes, one section of the orchestra goes wild – that's catastrophic thinking.

Studies show that it's linked to brain areas that process pain and danger. When these areas spiral out of control, they flood our minds with negative thoughts and emotions.

Further Examples of Catastrophic Thinking

  • Exam around the corner? Instead of studying, you're already picturing in your mind the scenario where you fail and everyone laughs at you.
  • Date with your crush? You worry that they won't like you and the evening will be embarrassing.
  • Airplane turbulence? You imagine the plane crashing and you losing your life.

Question: Imagine you're standing on the edge of an abyss and you only see darkness. Panic rises within you because you think you could fall at any moment. What's going on in your head right now?

Answer: Bingo! You're dealing with catastrophic thinking.

Question: Your partner forgets your birthday. Instead of assuming they're just a bit stressed, you immediately fear that they no longer love you and you're going to break up. What is this thought spiral called?

Answer: That's right, catastrophic thinking!

The Problem: These negative thought spirals can prevent us from realizing our full potential. They paralyze us and hinder us from taking risks and trying new things.

But the good news is: You can learn to break these thought spirals! With a few simple strategies, you'll learn to recognize and challenge your negative thought patterns.

Perhaps you're now pondering the following question.

Where Does Catastrophic Thinking Come From?

Our brain is naturally programmed to recognize dangers and protect us from them. In stressful situations or during uncertainty, our brain switches to alarm mode and produces negative thoughts. Under prolonged stress, catastrophic thinking can easily develop.

However, this thought spiral can also harm us. Instead of protecting us, it often prevents us from realizing our full potential.

That's why it's important to confront your thoughts early and have an answer to the following question:

How Can You Stop Catastrophizing?

1. Recognize: The first step is to recognize your own catastrophic fantasies. Pay attention to your thoughts and feelings and ask yourself if they are realistic and helpful.

2. Question: Once you've identified a catastrophic thought, question it critically. Ask yourself: "How likely is it really that the worst will happen?" Are there alternative, more positive explanations for the situation?

3. Reframe: Replace your negative thoughts with more positive and realistic ones. For example, instead of thinking, "I won't pass the exam," think: "I've prepared well and I'll do my best. I'm confident I'll achieve a good grade."

4. Practice: Letting go of catastrophic fantasies requires practice. Be patient with yourself and don't give up immediately if you don't succeed right away. With time, you'll learn to control your thought patterns and think more positively.

Additional Tips:

  • Talk to someone: It can be helpful to talk to friends, family, or a therapist about your worries and fears.
  • Relaxation techniques: Relaxation techniques like progressive muscle relaxation (Jacobson's method) or meditation can help reduce stress and anxiety and improve your mental clarity.
  • Self-care: Pay attention to yourself and your health. Healthy eating, sufficient sleep, and regular exercise can strengthen your mental and emotional resilience. But even a weekly warm bath can be part of good self-care.

Remember: You are not alone! Catastrophic fantasies are widespread, but they don't have to define your life.

With the right strategies, you can learn to recognize and challenge your negative thought patterns.

This way, you gain more control over your thoughts and feelings and can lead a happier and more fulfilling life.

And here's a small personal video message to motivate you: 35-second video

So, what are you waiting for? Break the chains of catastrophic fantasies and reshape your life!



Updated on: 11. Juli 2025


Magazine Anxiety


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