Testimonials

What couples say about my online couples therapy.

Over 35 couples and individuals have trusted me on their journey. Here they share their experiences of my online couples therapy and psychological counselling — honest, open and unabridged.

★★★★★ 5.0 from 35+ reviews

What couples value about my online couples therapy.

A safe space where both partners are finally heard

Many couples report that their conversations at home tend to go round in circles. In online couples therapy I create a protected setting where both partners have equal space to speak.

Instead of attacking and defending, you learn to really listen to one another in our sessions. That is often the first true turning point after months or years of conflict.

Practical tools instead of endless reflection

What couples especially value about my approach: no endless analysis, but concrete tools for everyday life. You take exercises home with you to apply between sessions.

So therapy keeps working even when the screen goes dark. Change happens in the small moments between appointments.

Want to check whether we fit and take away a first impulse? Book a free first consultation. Or first try one of my free self-tests — anonymous, free and offering a first self-assessment in just a few minutes.

Online and location-independent: for couples who don't want to wait

Online couples therapy is, for many couples, the only way to even begin together. Long-distance relationships, expat couples, frequent business travel or small children at home — online is often the only practical route.

Studies show that online couples therapy is just as effective as in-person sessions. In practice, many couples feel more open at home and reach what really moves them more quickly.

Couples Therapy

Testimonials from couples.

Sabine & Thomas

Sabine & Thomas

★★★★★

Finally found our way back to each other

"We were close to separation. Online couples therapy with Patric saved us. He creates a space where we dare to be honest — without it escalating. Today we talk with each other again, not past each other. We can recommend Patric to any couple that still wants to give it a chance."

Julia & Markus

Julia & Markus

★★★★★

Rebuilt trust after an affair

"After a breach of trust we were devastated. Patric helped us see the real problem underneath. The online sessions were perfect for us — we could work from home and didn't have to visit an unfamiliar practice. Today, one year on, we are closer than ever before."

Anna & Stefan

Anna & Stefan

★★★★★

Long-distance relationship saved

"We live in two different countries and our relationship was on the verge of breaking. With Patric we could do therapy together online — me from Berlin, my husband from Vienna. Exactly what we needed. Practical, professional and full of warmth."

Lisa & Daniel

Lisa & Daniel

★★★★★

Brilliantly supported as an expat couple

"As an expat couple abroad, it was hard to find German-speaking couples therapy. Patric is the answer. He understands the challenges we face because he is an expat himself. The shared sessions have completely changed our communication."

Eva & Michael

Eva & Michael

★★★★★

Clear tools for our everyday life

"We learned so much about ourselves. Patric gives us concrete tools to use between sessions. No endless reflection — real change. Our cycles of conflict have stopped."

Individual Counselling

Testimonials from individuals.

Doro G.

Doro G.

★★★★★

Chapeau!

"I would give Patric a whole sky full of stars for his professional, human and authentic way of being. Chapeau! Our conversations went deep, full of opportunities to reflect, grow and develop. With all my heart I can recommend Patric as a 5-star psychologist who masterfully practises the art of psychological counselling — with great joy, a pinch of humour and plenty of lightness. Thank you, Patric!"

Jacquelin G.

Jacquelin G.

★★★★★

Such a life-affirming mindset

"Patric has a very open, understanding and empathetic way of conducting conversations. This, combined with his life-affirming yet realistic mindset, makes it easy to open up and talk about problems and difficulties. Within a short time he creates a safe space with a pleasant atmosphere. Thank you."

Katharina B.

Katharina B.

★★★★★

Through my jungle of emotions, together

"In my conversations with Patric I quickly felt very comfortable. He meets you on eye level, is attentive, warm, there's also laughter, and of course he listens beautifully. Thank you for walking with me through my jungle of emotions and for stopping and looking more closely where needed!"

Gabi Mooser

Gabi Mooser

★★★★★

I hope you can help many more people

"Patric is empathetic and takes my concerns and worries seriously. Even through online sessions, Patric is able to build a strong bond with me. I feel comfortable and trusting in our conversations. Many thanks dear Patric, and I hope you can help many more people. Greetings from Amsterdam."

Danka V.

Danka V.

★★★★★

Mr P. is the right choice

"I had the pleasure of meeting Mr P. when I was looking for professional and empathetic psychological support. He has proven himself to be a true expert in his field. He knows how to engage with the person and respond to their specific needs. He creates a warm and welcoming atmosphere that made it easy for me to open up."

Kera

Kera

★★★★★

Impulses that open your eyes!

"Patric stays true to his name (which means "gatekeeper" in German). As Mr Pförtner, he helped me close the door to my past with clarity and a new awareness. He opened my eyes through certain impulses… gave me new eyes. As a meaning-maker I rose to become a victor instead of a victim. Kera🦋"

Clemens F.

Clemens F.

★★★★★

Dedication and passion

"Patric was there for me when I went through a major and unexpected crisis in my life. His support went far beyond what I would have expected from a psychologist. The dedication and passion he puts into his work is even more impressive in retrospect. I can warmly recommend working with Patric."

Steph S.

Steph S.

★★★★★

Opening up becomes natural!

"First I would like to appreciate the time he took to help me. Patric has the energy that will comfort you and opening up becomes natural. He gave me techniques to try that help me when I have an anxiety attack. He left me feeling human again and reminded me that humans aren't perfect, and that's okay."

Smokéy DeBois

Smokéy DeBois

★★★★★

A help for big, particularly deep worries

"Two open ears and carefully considered advice. No problem seems impossible, no question is sent out into the world without an answer. A help for big, particularly deep worries — or simply a steady guide for everyday life. Reliable, friendly, easy to understand and full of understanding."

Nassim Belafkih

Nassim Belafkih

★★★★★

Grateful for the many fascinating hours

"Patric combines scientific insight with practical tools that integrate directly into daily life. I'm grateful for the many fascinating hours and the results we've achieved 🙏"

Lisa Russe

Lisa Russe

★★★★★

Lightness

"He brought lightness back to me during a very difficult time."

Robin.

Robin.

★★★★★

The best psychologist

"The best psychologist you could ever imagine! I'm grateful to have Patric as my psychologist!"

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In our first conversation you tell me where you stand right now and what you expect from your couples therapist. At the end, you decide whether the chemistry feels right.

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"Most arguments aren't the argument you think you're having."
"Trust doesn't grow through words. It grows through repetition."
"A strong relationship isn't one without conflict — it's one where you find your way back."
Psychologist Patric Pförtner is a registered full member of the BDP

Quality seal for psychological counselling awarded by the Professional Association of German Psychologists (BDP).

Registered full member of the BDP

Registered full member of the Professional Association of German Psychologists (BDP).

Online psychological counselling quality seal

For my work, the BDP has awarded me the "Counselling by Psychologists" quality mark.